Talking with my friends recently I discover that even though we (women) think that the most important thing about love affairs is the kind of a man we are dealing with, in fact it is all about us. We are the ones that make the game. We ‘dress to impress’ and stare with wide opened eyes while biting our lips. We chuckle to boring jokes and smile mysteriously. We act speechless and needy. The scenario continues with men not thinking about it, not realising we like them, and finalises with some kind of relationship, which looks more like a spider web of flirtation methods. Yet, we got the man. He is ours.
Consequently, there are thousands articles about how to please a man and enchant him but I could have thought of only nine ways to make him disappear.
1. Be smart
2. Be direct
For example telling him that you find it funny and not sexy at all when he is talking dirty. He won’t waste another time with you.
3. Be cheap
4. Be always in a good mood
When you’re going out for five days and you are optimistic, and smiley, and cheerful all the time:
5. Be independent
This is about men’s habit to show their strength by taking away your independence. No matter if he wants to take your heavy bags or just come with you and your friends on the dangerous trip in the mountain. If you can do both without him, a man understands that you do not need him and he will go away.
6. Be sexual
7. Be different
8. Be natural
9. Be open-minded
She: “I want you tonight, and tomorrow I don’t know… I won’t probably call you. But hey, there are lots of girls, who are waiting for you”
Men insist on women deceptive flirtation. They can say they want a smart, frank, not a gold digger, joyful, insatiable, not like the others, liberal girl but when they see her they depart from the airport with the first convenient flight. Honestly, do not try this unless you want to be left alone forever.